the primary reason people don't do the things they want to do is fear. it has really little to do with intention or laziness or whatever else you can think of. however, fear can also make you do things. like changing your life. the equation has to be fear of the unknown < fear of the known. this year (my 30th and most fabulous year) is all about change. yep, it's scary as hell. but it's a lot less to fear than being stuck where i was hating my job and floating in empty promises. so don't avoid your fear. embrace it. find out where it takes you.